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		<title>By: Betsy HP</title>
		<link>http://www.ferntreedesign.com/blog/2009/discussion/wrongly-accused/comment-page-1/#comment-7829</link>
		<dc:creator>Betsy HP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 17:39:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Argh.  Typo.  &quot;seriously&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Argh.  Typo.  &#8220;seriously&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Betsy HP</title>
		<link>http://www.ferntreedesign.com/blog/2009/discussion/wrongly-accused/comment-page-1/#comment-7828</link>
		<dc:creator>Betsy HP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 17:38:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Damn, I&#039;m sorry.  What an unpleasant ending to a getaway.

&quot;However, it sounds like you and Chris can have some fun reporting that sheriff to his superiors for doing such a poor job. &quot;

I serioiusly don&#039;t recommend that.  Sheriff is very probably an elected position and getting a sheriff mad at you is a recipe for pain  -- in practice, he reports mainly to the voters.  See the current events with &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dawn-teo/sheriff-arpaio-incites-wi_b_397894.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Sheriff Arpaio in Maricopa County&lt;/a&gt;, Arizona.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Damn, I&#8217;m sorry.  What an unpleasant ending to a getaway.</p>
<p>&#8220;However, it sounds like you and Chris can have some fun reporting that sheriff to his superiors for doing such a poor job. &#8221;</p>
<p>I serioiusly don&#8217;t recommend that.  Sheriff is very probably an elected position and getting a sheriff mad at you is a recipe for pain  &#8212; in practice, he reports mainly to the voters.  See the current events with <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dawn-teo/sheriff-arpaio-incites-wi_b_397894.html" rel="nofollow">Sheriff Arpaio in Maricopa County</a>, Arizona.</p>
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		<title>By: Toni Thompson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Toni Thompson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 22:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yikes, Patricia! What an upsetting situation - you guys certainly don&#039;t deserve that! However, it sounds like you and Chris can have some fun reporting that sheriff to his superiors for doing such a poor job. If I were you, I would tell the sheriff that you plan to do so and suggest to him that he might want to go talk that restaurant manager into withdrawing his complaint since the information he provided was bogus. I make this recommendation because of a situation I got into in Oakland years ago.* 

Best of luck getting a decent resolution on this. At the very least, that manager should have to buy you an Amazon gift certificate or something for your inconvenience...

* The Oakland cop story:
When I was a young long-hair hanging out with other long-haired folk, a cop stopped my VW for a past-due registration. He made some rude and improper remarks about how I probably had lots of outstanding tickets because I was a hippie which I considered harassing behavior. When he returned from &quot;checking me out&quot; (no outstanding tickets, by the way), I had gathered a paper and pencil and made a show of taking down his badge number. All of a sudden he started being conciliatory and took a completely different tone. A few days later, I went down to the Internal Affairs Office of the OPD to make a formal complaint about his behavior. As I was telling my story, another officer walked in and asked the officer I was talking to, &quot;What&#039;s this one about?&quot;, and the officer said something like, &quot;It&#039;s Charlie, again.&quot; Turned out the nasty copy was burning out and was under investigation by IA. I left it in their hands to do the right thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yikes, Patricia! What an upsetting situation &#8211; you guys certainly don&#8217;t deserve that! However, it sounds like you and Chris can have some fun reporting that sheriff to his superiors for doing such a poor job. If I were you, I would tell the sheriff that you plan to do so and suggest to him that he might want to go talk that restaurant manager into withdrawing his complaint since the information he provided was bogus. I make this recommendation because of a situation I got into in Oakland years ago.* </p>
<p>Best of luck getting a decent resolution on this. At the very least, that manager should have to buy you an Amazon gift certificate or something for your inconvenience&#8230;</p>
<p>* The Oakland cop story:<br />
When I was a young long-hair hanging out with other long-haired folk, a cop stopped my VW for a past-due registration. He made some rude and improper remarks about how I probably had lots of outstanding tickets because I was a hippie which I considered harassing behavior. When he returned from &#8220;checking me out&#8221; (no outstanding tickets, by the way), I had gathered a paper and pencil and made a show of taking down his badge number. All of a sudden he started being conciliatory and took a completely different tone. A few days later, I went down to the Internal Affairs Office of the OPD to make a formal complaint about his behavior. As I was telling my story, another officer walked in and asked the officer I was talking to, &#8220;What&#8217;s this one about?&#8221;, and the officer said something like, &#8220;It&#8217;s Charlie, again.&#8221; Turned out the nasty copy was burning out and was under investigation by IA. I left it in their hands to do the right thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Greg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 04:14:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>NWA had it right. Office of citizen complaints should be the first order of business. Happy to serve as your eyewitness to the fact that the cop was on crack.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NWA had it right. Office of citizen complaints should be the first order of business. Happy to serve as your eyewitness to the fact that the cop was on crack.</p>
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		<title>By: Prose</title>
		<link>http://www.ferntreedesign.com/blog/2009/discussion/wrongly-accused/comment-page-1/#comment-7809</link>
		<dc:creator>Prose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Curt.  Yeah, all I could think of was &quot;What if we had decided instead to stay at the camp ground?  We&#039;d be dealing with this bill for sure.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Curt.  Yeah, all I could think of was &#8220;What if we had decided instead to stay at the camp ground?  We&#8217;d be dealing with this bill for sure.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Prose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Prose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:08:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes! I just found out about Google Latitude.  I feel like now I should just go around snapping pictures of everyone/everything and getting random &quot;eye witness&quot; accounts saying &quot;you were here.&quot;  I figure this can be a tip for frustrated restaurant owners, or yet another angle on a possible scam: Don&#039;t want your friends to pay their bill when they visit your restaurant? Just claim that some random stranger dined-and-dashed, get their license plate, and you can pretty much bet the sheriff will bully them into paying.  I was pretty much resigned to paying this, because the sheriff gave me NO answer about what I could do to fight this, until I told him: &quot;You guys deal with liars and cheats all the time, so I&#039;m not surprised you think that I&#039;m one, but it really sucks that I have to pay a bill that I did NOT incur.&quot;  After that, he backed down and said that I could file a report, but he immediately followed through with &quot;good luck, since this guy got your license plate (remember this was under an incorrect assumption that he got the plate at the point of occurence).&quot;  Chris was the one who calmly followed through and asked the restaurant owner the key questions.  Not the sheriff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes! I just found out about Google Latitude.  I feel like now I should just go around snapping pictures of everyone/everything and getting random &#8220;eye witness&#8221; accounts saying &#8220;you were here.&#8221;  I figure this can be a tip for frustrated restaurant owners, or yet another angle on a possible scam: Don&#8217;t want your friends to pay their bill when they visit your restaurant? Just claim that some random stranger dined-and-dashed, get their license plate, and you can pretty much bet the sheriff will bully them into paying.  I was pretty much resigned to paying this, because the sheriff gave me NO answer about what I could do to fight this, until I told him: &#8220;You guys deal with liars and cheats all the time, so I&#8217;m not surprised you think that I&#8217;m one, but it really sucks that I have to pay a bill that I did NOT incur.&#8221;  After that, he backed down and said that I could file a report, but he immediately followed through with &#8220;good luck, since this guy got your license plate (remember this was under an incorrect assumption that he got the plate at the point of occurence).&#8221;  Chris was the one who calmly followed through and asked the restaurant owner the key questions.  Not the sheriff.</p>
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		<title>By: Prose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Prose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:03:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know Nina, all I could think about was what it must be like to be a minority.  This experience really brought that home.  Imagine if it were an African American couple, or an Asian couple (do they all look alike to white people)?  Chris was held without any indication of why by the police when he was in his 20s because a shop keeper said that a &quot;long-haired hippy exposed himself to her.&quot;  So, Chris had long hair and the nabbed him.  Wasn&#039;t him.  The cops didn&#039;t even tell him why they detained him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know Nina, all I could think about was what it must be like to be a minority.  This experience really brought that home.  Imagine if it were an African American couple, or an Asian couple (do they all look alike to white people)?  Chris was held without any indication of why by the police when he was in his 20s because a shop keeper said that a &#8220;long-haired hippy exposed himself to her.&#8221;  So, Chris had long hair and the nabbed him.  Wasn&#8217;t him.  The cops didn&#8217;t even tell him why they detained him.</p>
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		<title>By: Wendy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wendy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 15:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, that stinks!  Maybe in a couple of years you can look back and laugh.  Right now, however, that wasn&#039;t exactly what you needed.  I hope you still had a nice time. The weekend was lovely!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, that stinks!  Maybe in a couple of years you can look back and laugh.  Right now, however, that wasn&#8217;t exactly what you needed.  I hope you still had a nice time. The weekend was lovely!</p>
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		<title>By: Santoshi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Santoshi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 15:36:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m so sorry this happened to you guys - you were needing some time away so badly - hopefully some of the good parts will resurface after the anger and frustration subsides a bit.
This so sucks!
And you guys are two of the most honest people I know!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so sorry this happened to you guys &#8211; you were needing some time away so badly &#8211; hopefully some of the good parts will resurface after the anger and frustration subsides a bit.<br />
This so sucks!<br />
And you guys are two of the most honest people I know!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Curt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Curt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 15:24:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That sucks. Glad you had the other receipt. A lot of Barney Fife types in the Gualala sherriff&#039;s department.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That sucks. Glad you had the other receipt. A lot of Barney Fife types in the Gualala sherriff&#8217;s department.</p>
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